For many employees, being unhappy at work seems to be the norm. Robert Giacalone of Temple's Fox School of Business recommends three ways to change the way you think about your job: Stop worrying, stop comparing and perhaps most of all, stop being unrealistic. "We fantasize of a job where we have the 'right' amount of time to do our jobs, the 'right' boss, 'nice' colleagues and 'friendly' clients. But when we begin to expect the real job to be like our fantasies, we set ourselves up for disappointment."